Nepal, new constitution, new hopes--what changed for me?

Bhunte ka ba, where are you? How are you? Are you seeing all these? Can you see what we had to go through? Can you feel my pain? Can you feel my solitude? So many questions for you my dear, so much to talk to you about, so much to share; yet all I get is silence.

I wish you were here today. Wish you could see what Nepal has become. Wish you could see this chaos. I don’t think you thought this is what revolution would bring. I don’t think you were aware this would be the change. If this was what you wanted to fight for, I would not have let you go. I would have begged for you to stay. I would have done everything to keep you with us. If you had still wanted to go, I would have gone with you.

I keep thinking about you, I keep hearing your voice. It’s been rough thirteen years since we lost you, but still I feel your touch. You told us that you were fighting to liberate poor people; that you were fighting against inequality; and that you were standing up against tyranny. I didn’t object then since you wanted to go. I didn’t stop you since you had made up your mind. I could see that desire in your eyes. I could see that hunger inside you. That determination was so vivid that I thought this might just bring the change in Nepal. You were certain that you would come back one day, and we would breathe in new Nepal; that our kids will have better lives. You asked me to handle the household, take care of kids, and take care of your parents. I did my part, I fulfilled my responsibilities, but you forgot your promises.

In your absence, I had to take care of three kids: their constant questions about you, your whereabouts, and when you would return were not easy to answer. Every night I wondered where you would be, and how far you were in your mission. Many dashain, tihar came and went. Every monsoon, we struggled but we survived. We could not afford to buy winter clothes, but still we survived. We endured the pain, hunger and still managed to stay alive.

Your parents kept waiting for you until their last breath. They loved you very dearly, eagerly waiting for you to come home. Maybe you have united with them in heaven now. Maybe they have already expressed their complaints; I can only speculate how happy they would be seeing you. Many times, police would come to our house looking for you. Every time, I would tell our kids that their dad was not a criminal, but a freedom fighter. They didn’t understand then, and not sure whether they understand it now either. I thought I understood, but I am not sure whether I can say I understood what it meant.

4 years passed by, except for few letters we didn’t hear anything from you, anything about you. Yet, we had not lost the hopes. I had hoped that you would return and embrace me once again in your arms. That day, I thought I would cry my hearts out, forgetting all the pain that kids and I endured in your absence. I thought we would give up everything, move somewhere and start a new life. This loneliness was too much to bear, so I thought I would not let you go again. Shattering all our hopes, news about your death arrived before you did. I didn’t know what to do; I was not sure whether to cry or not to cry. In a matter of few seconds, I had lost all that I had lived for. Our kids had lost their father before they even got to know him. They knew nothing about you except your name-every time they would write your name in school assignments, tears fell through my cheeks.

Many things happened in Nepal, King Gyanendra came and went, elections were held, and earthquake hit us hard. The earthquake took our house, landslide took away our land. But, we survived. Bhunte grew up too early for his age. Having seen me struggle to manage the household, he quit school and started working. I tried my best to convince him to go back to school and finish college, but he didn’t listen. He didn’t get much work, could not make much money, so he has gone to Malaysia to earn, I wanted to stop him. But just like you, he didn’t listen, he just left.

I had not realized it had already been 13 years since you left. Now, they say new constitution has been promulgated. They say now things will change. However, I think back and wonder what has changed for me. Except for few gray hairs, and wrinkled face, everything has been the same. Poverty, struggle, and loneliness; it all took away my desires, my youth, my life. In the war, I lost you, my husband, my everything. This society has been very cruel, my dear, but still I have been waiting for you. You come once in a while in my dreams; you hold my hands, you caress my hair, you tell me to wait. But, how long do I wait now? How long? You are testing my patience. I don’t think that I have that much patience any more. I loved you then, and I still love you, but I now wonder whether you were too selfish to leave all your responsibilities behind and take off just like that. You left me, you left our kids. What still bothers me is you never asked me. You never did. 


--Narrated by a middle-aged Nepali female who lost her husband in Maoist War. Based on real life stories heard. Names and details changed for dramatization purposes.  

Roller Coaster~!@

Emotional roller coaster it has been, Ups and downs, twists and turns, Life In the absence of your smile, That invigorates a sense of joy, A feel of something new, Something exotic that awaits you and me,

That thing I always craved for, Sitting under a pine tree, by a lake, Watching the clouds play hide and seek, With the sun smiling despite the agony, Of his shadows, as the only thing he could render, To the world was all hidden, Beneath those dark sheets of sky, Thunders growl, lightning flickers, And I immerse my soul into yours, No expectations, and no retribution at all, For all happened was written in our destiny.

Yet, I can't seem to forget, Your beautiful face, radiating as usual, With the smile, that got me wanting you, That kept me thinking, This was it, this was it, Yet, everything fell apart, you bade a farewell, So casually as if my existence was in doubt, As if my presence didn't mean anything to you.

Alternate Dimension

Early dawn broke across your face,

Like rose-tipped fingers dipped in gold,

Sensation that ran across,

When a shiny ray tickled my body,

An urge to hide,

Hide and burrow into my pores,

A light show underneath my skin,

I wrapped myself up, into your arms,

Trying to elude shadows of fear,

Trying to trick them into evaporating,

Smoke through a keyhole,

But the fear that still lingered,

Despite your soothing words, and your hands caressing me,

The fear that escalated lapped me up,

And desolation laughed along with misery,

At misery of your solitude and mockery of my innocence,

Threaded together, creating a steel cable that ran unbroken,

Binding itself to reality,

The moment of honesty is what you whispered,

Beneath your murmurs in this vague reality

Whispers of truth that hang themselves from your mouth,

Like dripping drops of morning dew,

But is that the freedom you wished for?

Like those morning dew that evaporate with the rising sun,

For despite all this, I am still convinced,

That we are each other’s salvation,

Or may be salvation is far-fetched,

And dreams took over your conscience,

This half-alive state of surreal-ness fogs my sense of time,

And everything slows down, creating an alternate dimension.

--Composed together by Jacqueline Terra and Paudel

Willing Victim

In the midst of mystery, I forgot

To remember the desires of my intuitive destiny

Hiding beneath my self-wounds, I lost,

Ability to pull shattered glass shards from my flesh,

And I wondered all along where you hid,

Beneath the cold dark shadows of the skeleton trees,

Duped I was, by the hidden mystery and their dead fallen leaves,

But I kept thinking,

That the illusion of you would be more than mere mirage,

But was it all I wanted? Did you think the same?

This unspoken dynamics,

Broke upon my soul like battering salt-water against eroding shoreline,

Yet you kept walking along the shore,

Greens mosses, lichens and that smile,

Oh that smile that curled, slowly across your face,

And wrapped itself up in your hair,

That dark-blonde hair of yours,

That lurked beneath your shoulders and those enticing lips,

Drew me into the honey, a willing victim eager for your pleasure.

--Composed together by Jacqueline Terra & Paudel

Happy Nepali New Year 2070

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Happy Nepali New Year 2070 to all my friends and family all over the world. Hope this year brings prosperity, joy, and happiness to all our lives. May we all live in peace, may we all have power to confess the truth and face the reality. May we all be bestowed with strengths to handle some tough situations in life. Overall, may we all be happy for who we are. And last not the least, may Nepal get the much-needed constitution and pave the way towards development.

Sincerely yours,
Paudel, Bishal

Don't look for me

A deserted path,

And that forgetful incident,

A fight, always the same,

And the victims of two arrogant souls,

I wait till they laugh,

Despite the raining tears,

I wait till they say,

“Father, I’m not the culprit. Let me go.”

And eternal pleasure that inflows,

And the shadow that lingers,

Over the place I should be buried,

I, me, and my,

Everything within reach,

For I want peace,

I want harmony,

Don’t look for me. 

Today I sing

Today I write for you,

For the hearts full of grace,

For the souls ripe with zeal,

Striving for an existence,

To avoid the humility,

On the brink of devastation,

Today I sing for you,

For the victims of cruelty,

For the quarries of insanity,

Roaring with unheard breath,

To repeal the blame of futility,

In the lack of voice,

Today I speak for you,

For the words against tyranny,

For the voice against suppression,

Yelling for an innate freedom,

To scare the roots of ferocity,

For a deeper understanding of rights,

Today I stand for you,

For the casualties of atrocity,

For the steps towards destiny,

Discarding the trepidation of death,

To live a meaningful life,
For a realization of freedom,

A sovereign flesh, I am,

Blessed with positivity,

No more silence, my friends,

For there’s no periphery of sagacity,

Remorse would I feel, if I compromise,

For there’s no substitute for equality,

“Might is right” is gone my friend,

Open your eyes for a new clarity.

Beg in misery

Amid a huge applause,

I wondered what my hopes were,

Never had a moment to self,

To let me ponder for the soul I care,

Success might be what I had,

And noisy crowd that follows me as wraith,

Hints of glory all over,

Not a single to muse by ablazed faith,

You ruined my confidence,

And yet show your smiling face,

Annoyed by your applause and laughter,

I hide myself behind your grace.

I beg in misery,

A company that could read,

Me and my agony,

Let me alone, you elegant majesty,

To discover the world,

Beyond your periphery.

Clueless

I’ve seen you cry, I’ve seen you frown,

I’ve seen you naked,

With crimson cheeks, and eyes shiny and brown

Yet you hide your pain under that subtle grin,

So immaculate, so pristine,

Mesmerized I always be, like a pebble in the rain

Like a last drop of dew hanging on the leaves,

As the morning ray shines,

Shadow is all I could leave behind

You may say I left early I fled with the rest,

Would you ever understand,

Whatever I did, I did for the best. 

Chinese New Year 2013

Right when the North-East of the United States is covered with as much as 3 fts of snow, Beijing is busy celebrating the year of snake. The celebration that lasts for about 15 days is celebrated across the globe by billions of people. Let the celebration begin, and let us all wish each other a very prosperous, and joyful Chinese New Year 2013. Lets hope the year of the snake inhales all the venom that lurks around our lives.

Happy Chinese New Year 2013. Cheers!!

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